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Fraser Allen Estate Management
Festival House, Jessop Avenue, Cheltenham, Gloucestershire , GL50 3SH
Website Email 0117 2980723They have both taught me about hard work, loyalty, love and kindness. Not just with their words, but in their every day actions throughout my life.
I am lucky enough to have a wonderful godmother who has always been incredibly supportive, as well as a mother-in-law who has always been so dedicated to her family, two sons and her grandchildren.
What is Mother’s Day?
Mother’s Day in the UK is always linked to Easter, which is why it falls on a different day each year. It is determined by the lunar calendar.
UK’s Mother’s Day always falls on the fourth Sunday during Lent.
It’s a time when we celebrate the mother of the family and also, motherhood, maternal bonds and the influence of mothers in society.
Some people who are not actual mothers have maternal attributes which influences how they interact with people.
There are often people in the workplace who ‘mother’ new employees when they join the company.
Mother’s Day is a time when all of the people in your life who are motherly can be thanked and celebrated, alongside your own mother, grandmother, step mother or a man/woman in your life who has taken on a ‘mother’ role.
Where do mums fit today in the world of work?
Many mothers have to work in a job alongside running a home, and caring for their children. Not surprisingly, the stereotypical mother-figure is changing.
In the 21st century, the average age of the first-time mum is over 30 and 70% of mothers have a job. Many families cannot make ends meet with only one salary making up the household income. Many families choose for both parents to work.
Did you know that 33% of working mothers in the UK are the main earner in their family?
There are only 5.2 million stay at home mums, which is the lowest it’s been for 20 years.
33% of working mothers in the UK are the main earner in their family
I had my first child less than two years ago and I was already running my own business.
This meant I’d already considered how to make motherhood work alongside being my own boss of a property management and block management company – find out more about what I do here.
The hours that I work are set so I can spend time with my daughter and also set aside time for work (by having good childcare). That way, when I’m with her I can be as present as possible.
I do have to be flexible of course – when you run your own business you cannot always control what happens and when. However, flexibility works both ways for me. I can take time off when I need to and then work when my daughter is asleep. The nine to five is a thing of the past.
It has been trickier than I’ve imagined as, with children, you learn to expect the unexpected. There have been numerous times when she’s not been able to go to her childcare provider because she’s been under the weather – and that requires a lot of running around making alternative arrangements with my partner and my own mum.
Therefore, what I’ve learned to date is that good parenting – when you have to work or choose to work – as a mum is a team effort. You may not need all of the ‘team’ all of the time, yet you will always need a team.
The pros and cons of being a working mum?
Pros
Cons
Can a work-life balance be found?
And finally
Always explain to your child where you are, what you are doing, how it helps the family and the home and let them ask questions when they are able. You are slowly sowing the seeds of independence, resilience and determination with a massive dollop of motherly love!
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